Single and Lovin’ It! – Vanessa Tai

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You know that childhood ditty that goes, “First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes baby in the baby carriage”? As innocuous as this silly little rhyme sounds, it actually sets the tone for many young girls (and boys) to expect that’s how life is supposed to pan out. Meet the love of your life … Read more

How Do You Know You’re In A Relationship? – Denise Li

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In a non-Cosmo-approved poll done among my attached friends (like, um, 5 of them), only one say for certain when she entered a relationship. That person is me. I admit, it took a few pints of liquid courage for me to ask him, “So, I’m leaving for Singapore tomorrow. Are we, like, exclusive?”, but the … Read more

A Social Burnout – Deborah Tan

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I think I’m at the risk of getting a social burnout. Wait. It’s not what you think. My social calendar isn’t filled with invitations to the most happening parties in Singapore. But managing my appointments is threatening to drive me crazy! In July alone, I’ve double-booked (triple-booked!) myself on so many occasions, my sanity is … Read more

It’s Just A Lil’ Crush – Deborah Tan

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I’m sure all of us – at more than one point of our lives – have suffered from the heart-wrenching, gut-tearing, frustrating feelings of a nursing a crush. Some crushes become the real thing. Which is fabulous. All that feelings you have for a guy and one day, he tells you he feels the same … Read more

The Sex Workshops You Should Know – VANESSA TAI

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Recently, over a game of Truth or Dare and one too many Hoegardens, my best male buddy ‘fessed up, “The worst oral I ever got was when I opened my eyes to see her staring up intently at me … I know it’s supposed to be sexy or something, but it just freaked me out!” Needless … Read more

Jerks: A Necessary Evil – Deborah Tan

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First of all, let me make things clear – I’ve never dated anyone who can technically be defined as a jerk. To me, and I’m sure a lot of women will agree, for a man to be classfied as a jerk, he’d probably have to be one or all of these things: 1. Emotionally manipulative … Read more

The One Thing That Melts My Heart – Denise Li

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There’s no denying it – my fiance, A, is a true-blue jock. His idea of a pre-workout warm-up is a 5k run and few things in life bring him greater pleasure than a few rounds of sparring when he’s at Mixed Martial Arts (MMA) training. I won’t ever need to spend money on a personal … Read more

Hug your man today – Denise Li

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I don’t know who perpetuated the myth that all men want to do after sex is sleep and that they hate post-coital cuddles, but whoever’s responsible for that should stop spreading lies. I chanced upon this story as I was clicking through the Cosmo US website this morning, which said cuddling was a predictor of … Read more

Making Long-Distance Love Last – Denise Li

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You could say it’s been a year of “never say never” for me. If we were having a conversation and the topic of relationships had come up in April last year, I would have repeated the same few mantras that I’d steadfastly (some say stubbornly) stuck by for the past few years, which were: I … Read more

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